What I Needed Most During My Affair

If you’re knee-deep in one, you may need these things too

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I can hear the comments already.

“I’ll tell you what you needed. You needed to get out of the damn thing!”

Although that advice may be true, it’s not very helpful. During my affair, my head and heart were a…

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making mistakes · gathering lessons · sparking curiosity · finding meaning & magical moments in the midst of my messy life

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