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The Universe Keeps Sending Me Good Men
We live in a benevolent Universe
I believe the Universe is benevolent.
Scratch that. I know the Universe is benevolent. Here’s why.
For the past few years, I’ve been asking the Universe to bring a good man into my life. From what I’ve read about how the Universe works, I must first make my request known. Then, I need to put myself out there and trust that the Universe wants to fill my request. I also need to remain open to what It sends my way.
So I stated my request.
Dear Universe, please send a good man my way.
Then I put myself out there. I hopped on dating sites, joined MeetUp groups, and hung out in art galleries and breweries. I’ve put myself in many different kinds of places and participated in activities I enjoy. I’ve met lots of men, but unfortunately, I haven’t yet bumped into one I’d like to date or who wants to date me.
I’ll admit that after all this effort I began to have my doubts. But I kept asking — almost daily — because I want to believe and trust that the Universe is benevolent.
Then a few weeks ago I happened to attend a holiday party with a number of my co-workers and their spouses. I recently began working a new job where I’m the only woman in an office of…