That transition is a work in progress! I’ve written a few stories that touch on it but don’t necessarily explain the process in depth. One was about following life’s ‘yeses’ rather than the ‘no’s. Here’s a link to one that talks about it a bit more although the story is about more than just that. Thank you for asking by the way. Medium can be so great for dialog like this, don’t you think?

https://medium.com/age-of-empathy/walking-away-from-my-marriage-me-feeling-unmoored-d9e97da3d9fc