Thanks for your explanation. Just to poke at this a bit more—you said you can tell immediately if the spark is there and define chemistry as how effortlessly you can spend time with them. Wouldn’t that mean you need time to determine if the spark is there? I’m only trying to understand because I seem to need time but men often don’t and I’m hoping to bridge that gap.

I agree about the in the bed thing. Chemistry is either there with that piece or not!

I’ll check out your other story later today. Gotta head to my 9-5!