Thanks for your comment. It's stories like yours that prompted this post. I don't understand why your wife would accept that situation either, but at least she allows for you to seek it elsewhere.

I think one of the hardest parts is that there's a difference between making love and fucking. Making love is what we want and that can only be done with someone we love. There's so much more to it than just sex. I may have to write a related post on this.