Thanks for reading and for your message. Although it’s hard sometimes for me to read those “but you cheated” comments, I’ll still keep beating my drum that it takes two to make a great marriage. I believe we must stop blaming and shaming and have some hard and honest conversations about why infidelity happens. I know what I did wasn’t right. And I also know now the way I was treated in my marriage wasn’t right either. Why didn’t I leave first many ask? As with many things in life, it was complicated.