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Just Like Happiness, Orgasms Are My Responsibility
Here are 3 things that help me achieve one
Orgasms and happiness have a lot in common.
Both make me smile. Both create an amazing all-over-my-body sparkly feeling.
And both are my responsibility.
I recently asked several healthy, well-connected couples if it’s their partner’s responsibility to make them happy. Emphatically, they all said no. It’s their responsibility to be happy.
They stated that their partners can certainly do things to enhance or detract from their happiness, but ultimately, each partner is responsible for their own happiness.
To quote William Arthur Ward, “Happiness is an inside job.”
From my experience, the same can be said for orgasms. If I want one, it’s my responsibility. The only difference is that orgasms are both an inside and an outside job.
So if I want that sparkly all-over-my-body feeling to happen, it’s my responsibility to do a few things.
Know my body
First and foremost, I need to know my body. I need to know what I like and what feels good. I need to know what works best to achieve that sparkly feeling.
