I never thought I’d be a person who had and affair until I had one. I can’t speak to the reason everyone has one but I know for me it was a direct indication of how bad my marriage was and how broken I was. I’ve done some serious introspection since then. I’ve written a lot about how it affected me and became a source of transformation. I’ll never do it again because I’m not that person anymore. I’ve also learned it takes two to make a marriage work. It has to be a partnership. I didn’t have that in my marriage but it sounds like you and your husband do and that’s a beautiful thing. I appreciate you sharing your thoughts and perspective on this.